thoughts of the moment

[themeletor]

i need to be kinder.

not that i've become any sort of mean, but radical kindness used to be my m.o., and i've noticed myself fading away from that -- becoming quicker to judge (or really, judging at all); sharper of tongue; and generally breeding energies that are not as fully positive as the ones that i really should be adding to the world.

saw kittie tonight and met some genuinely sweet metal fans. headbanged a little. left early (wish i hadn't).

then i went to a drag show and experienced a lot of cliquishness and cattiness.

i know exactly which of the two i prefer, any day, ever.

this is my recommitment to love and joy.

♥

Comments

[commodorified]

*send you love and loff and JOY*

... I find that radical kindness is a discipline that needs regular mindfullness and a certain amount of self-care.

Which is to say, I hear ya. And re-commitment is good.

*hugs you*

[themeletor]

♥ ♥

I find that radical kindness is a discipline that needs regular mindfullness and a certain amount of self-care. -- yes. very yes. and it reminds me of some words from the exceptional ms. rupaul: "if you can't love yourself, how in the hell are you going to love somebody else?"

*many hugs*

[sansets]

Well, from MY perspective you're already doing an awesome job at exuding positive energy into the world. I got your package in the mail this morning and IT MADE ME SMILE SO VERY MUCH. I kind of wish I could give you a big hug right now. ♥ ♥ ♥

[themeletor]

:D :D :D YAAAAAAAY. i've been staring at my mailbox every day as i leave for work as if that would make the package arrive in your mailbox any faster -- good to know i can stop going cross-eyed!

*INTERNET HUGS*

(ps the conditioner is REALLY HEAVY, so you only need to use a teeny teeny bit of it. but it smells delicious!)